bunq plans are always for a single person. If you want to use bunq together with multiple persons, each person needs to have their own plan. Of course it's hard to completely prevent this type of usage (if you hand over your card, your phone or account credentials to another person, there won't be a SWAT team suddenly falling from the sky) but you'd be breaking the Terms of Service. Just so you're aware.
We willen met deze rekening met apple pay betalen maar kan hier niks over vinden.
All bunq cards can be used with Apple Pay. It's as easy as clicking on the button in the app. If you need more guidance, look at the instructions here: https://together.bunq.com/d/2998